I believe in DBing you're not meant to do anything that helps the D along...let him work hard for your sig? just an idea? I think if you say "dear H, I really don't have time right now for this. I have bigger fish to fry right now, ie. having a baby".
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
