still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[newmama]

lol Gatsby! Do you know how many times in conversation with friends I said "if he wants a D..." or "If he wants to R..." this internet lingo transfers over! I also have said BS (betrayed spouses), WS (wayward spouses) and OPs (other person- but should be AP- affair partner) to real live friends too!

I know I shouldn't care but I wonder if WH will go to OW and vent to her about how I am acting. I am sure she is delighted and will try to villainize me. But I have done NOTHING to warrant those claims! He knows it! He knows it is normal and healthy for me to be pissed off! So there isn't much either of them can really complain about. Not that I should care but am only curious.