Mila, I don't follow your thread but I just want to add my support and write that I'm so sorry to read that you are going through this again. I can't imagine.

Originally Posted By: Mila
And it is the OW that keeps doing this to all of us...she breaks if off and...then she pulls him back in.


This caught my eye. I have no doubt that OW is loopy. But I hope you're putting the responsibility where it lies: 100% at your H's feet. He is not a fish on a hook who gets reeled in and out by OW. He is a grown man and he must be held responsible for his actions. You deserve better than being his option B.

(((hugs)))


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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