gatsby, going off of what you said, is it healthy for us to pushour feelings aside for the baby? Is it good that we just ignore how we feel or "deal" with our feelings and act like we dont care?

newmama, how do you act as if when your H is around? dont you get tired of it? Does the anger take over the love?

Piano, funny you asked your husband "And tell me, what WILL you tell your daughter one day, when she's 18 or 30 and you find she's caught up in a relationship with a married man who has a child on the way?!" . Wonder if a huge bell rang in his head!!!