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flowmom #1993791 04/30/10 11:30 PM
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CW, just wanted to say how much I admire the way you've handled your sitch. The dignity and grace you've shown through out is an inspiration and your inner strength is amazing.

God Bless you and yours!

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CW, I'm sorry that you have to go through this. I agree with SA, you are amazing and you are doing the best you can in an bad situation.

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Hi FM, SA and Mila!

Thanks for the hugs and encouraging words! Much needed!

Getting ready to head out for a walk. Last night, I saw a doe, she ran back into the woods and played peek a boo with me from behind a tree! Very cool! Will see what I can see tonight!

Everyone have a good weeknd!


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Hi CW,

That is great you live where you can see wild animals like that! I live in the city, I see squirrels & rabbits but I love to watch them. My dog likes to chase them. Nature is a wonderful thing!

You are doing great! I'm so proud of you. Sounds like you handled things great at the L office, I didn't do that well, I cried the whole time! Be strong, you can do it!!

(((HUGS)))

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I am not doing well.

Kids met OW last night. D11 said she is nice. Said her and Dad kissed and held hands. I want to hurl

She is about my height. Not fat, not skinny. She laughs at everything. They went wherever she wanted to go. They saw a movie. They went to a health food store. She drives a fancy car. I want to hurl

I cannot do this...I want to hurl


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(((CW))) I could only say that I'm so sorry...I feel your pain...I can't even offer anyone any encouragement today...I need some myself... cry


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CW

I can feel the hurt from your situation.

I am sure they were both on their best behaviour for your kids as they know it will get back. Also she would have wanted to make a good impression on them.

Remember only believe half of what you see. It sounds as if she is used to getting her own way. Eventually she will show her true colours.

Lots of hugs at this diffcult time.

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(((CW))) Of course ow will do everything in her power to impress the children at first. It will be a different story when reality sets in and daily life gets in the way.

I know how much this hurts, please take care of yourself and know that we're here for you.

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Hi Mila, LA and SA

Thanks...I know there is not a dang thing I can do but keep doing what I am doing and to try not dwell on it!

Apparently, H had an opportunity to introduce SS29 to her also but didn't. DIL told me that he is not ready to meet her yet.

Ok...not dwelling...going to go clean out the camper for next weekend...oh, btw, kids told me that H said if I needed to "borrow" the truck to pull the camper with to let him know! lol!!!!!


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((((CW)))) I'm so sorry you are going thru this!!!! I know how it hurts & how sick it makes you. But, someone said that she is trying to make a good first impression, I believe they are right & her true colors will show, soon enough.

Hang in there!!!

((((HUGS))))

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