It is called rewriting marital history and blameshifting. I know that you think it is genuine- and it is genuinely how he feels "at the moment." YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO TELL IF HE WASN'T "LOVING YOU" OR "UNHAPPY" FOR "YEARS!!!" BS!!!!

It is good that you laid it out for him, Piano. You don't have to decide, or say or do anything now- seriously. So you call him when you are in labor (or don't).

For what it's worth, I thought to myself "smart!" when you said you brought a family member there to be a witness.

Last edited by newmama; 05/02/10 09:59 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004