agree with JacT! It was good to say what you needed to say.
Your H knows deep inside that you still love him and care for him and would like to rebuild a new M. He just chooses to ignore it and avoid it. Sounds like his life is not as smooth sailing as he'd like... A is a mess? well what did he expect? Happily Ever After?
if the shoe were on the other foot... lets say my foot... and I thought I wasnt happy with my M and no longer loved my H, i would have gone to IC and tried to figure out what it is about me that makes me feel this way.
P, dont listen to his nonsense about not loving you and blah blah blah... looking back it is easy for him to say that as to validate his actions! but dont for one second believe it! he is just choosing to remember all the good times and the love he did feel for you!
