Are you and your H together? I have to read up on your sitch. "He wanted me to be a mom, but once I became one, I wasn't who he married anymore. What do you do with that?" I feel like that all of the time! I always say he helped me create a life out of our dreams, and now I am bound by the life he left behind.
My H is completing a full-time graduate program in a few months, and graduation is this month... i pushed him to go, he wanted to go to better our lives, for our family... we sacrificed everything! I believe school is what created the distance between us. I sacrificed every part of me, emotionally, financially, mentally, physically, everything i had in me...to get him where he is and now I am left with nothing. I have no energy. I was so proud of him... no one ever believed in him the way that I did. When I think of him on his grad day, i cant imagine what will go through his head knowing that I was the sole reason he is there...
I feel like he may have thought he wanted to have a family, but when we got PG maybe he realized he never wanted that? Maybe he wants a whole new life. With a new career, and a new wife... a new life...
It doesnt matter what i do, nothing is giving him second thoughts.
Is it easier to know their is OW? Or to know your H left you just because he didnt love you?
