STBXW is ratcheting up the torture. She yelled at me in the back yard so that the kids could overhear re: sale of the house: -that I am keeping her in the dark -what an a$$ I look like to everyone -she's going to demand another $30K reduction in the list price
She is going to ram this sale down my throat. She goes behind my back and changes contractors schedules. She is calling the realtors DAILY to the point that they told me that they are not answering her calls. A friend of mine whose wife is a realtor, told me that he was thinking of buying my house as an investment since the price is so below what it is worth now.
Friday night, my night with the kids, I came home early. S9 had a scout meeting at 6:15P. I had previously asked to have dinner with the kids. She drove off with them. S9 is afraid of her. When I approach him to talk with him, he becomes afraid and wants to terminate the conversation, "Dad..no....mom might come upstairs."
Today, while cleaning up, she dumped dishes on my files and papers again, left a dirty cup on my half of the bathroom sink (I think S9 left it there), put my father's cadette portrait from WWII face down on the floor (he passed in '95) and then, humiliating, rode on the brand new bicycle I purchased for S9 and 'made him' ride the smaller kids bike that I bought to replace it. When I said that I would fill her tires with air and to let him ride, she outwardly refused saying , "S9 said I could ride it and I'm going to."
(sigh)
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Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
