don't ever let anyone decide for you whether you should walk away or not. someone did give me some valuable advice: don't apply someone else's situation to your own.
i went nuts thinking h was having an affair and tried to look for every clue to suggest that he was.
throughout my m, i had no reason to believe he was. i've known my h for so long that i wouldn't give it a second thought. but as soon as people who don't know him suggest that i hire a P.I or tell me that it is likely that he is because their xh had cheated on them.
well .. the madness just took over. i think i did more damage to my goal more than anything.
you know your h better than anybody else. you know for yourself that the benefits of staying together outweighs being apart.
i applaud you for standing your ground. my story is just starting out. i know i can't jump to the end to find out if this ends in a happily ever after. the wait is killing me. but with encouragement from you, i hope to find peace at the end.
