My W was looking forward to the future but it did not have me in it. I am only 3 months into my sitch after nearly 10 years of being the terrible person I was. I know it will take time for her to change direction. What she is doing in the moment is only destructive it I let be destructive. I combat her attitude with positive energy.

As for the coach, I don't think so, but I am uncertain, check the F.A.Q section


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10