I went to church today only to find my wife walk into the church with the kids. She pretended I was not there. In any case when I got home my wife wanted to know why I did not say I was going to church. I told her she does not tell me what she does so I think a lot of our problem is communication. My 23 year old daughter wanted to know why I still hold on to hope that her mother and I will be a couple again. I told Jackie that she knew nothing about marriage and to stay out of our business. I work in a hospital as a physician and learned yesterday that we are going to have dramatic drops in salaries due to these tough financial times. My wife said I guess things will be different. I said in only one way and that I planned to work less and enjoy life. She said I hope you realize it will be without me. I told her I never had her in the picture. Of course I am lying but her complaint was how I was married to my job. Well I plan to turn a new leaf. Maybe too little to late but its a start.We are talking some which I think is a start but hope to keep the momentum. Thanks for support. Bobby o
