Settling

[newmama]

About settling- I think Divorce BUSTING helps to buy time to either stall or stop the divorce while simultaneously getting us to improve ourselves so that we can be desirable people to have a relationship with.

I see this as a process to get our WASs to want us again. Once they do, then we can raise the ante as to what we need from them as well. And all of us have seen ways that our marriages could be better, so we can start to work on getting that marriage once the WAS is back.

I could see "settling" temporarily while we are waiting for the WAS to return...but it is the price we pay if we want to bust the divorce!