XH has decended from the cloud of MLC , HELP

[floridababe]

Hope everyone is well and you all are doing your DB by the book!!!! It works..for some it takes longer then others but it does work.
Just an update...as you guys know..I have had contact with my XH in the past year...conversations and phone calls are alittle more frequent. Which is great! My youngest D has moved in with her dad and things are going well for them. I am so happy for them both! They needed each other. Now he gets to fall in love with our youngest GD and I am so jealous!! LOL> Well per our last phone conversation last week, my XH asked me when I was coming to visit and I told him which should be in the next three weeks sometime. He stated that he wanted me to come stay with him and my daughter. He told me that he does indeed miss me and he doesnt know what the %$#* he was thinking back then. Its exciting news...and I thanked him for that. However I still remain dark. I told him I would think about it and appreciated the invitation. He even has gone so far as to ask me to look for a job for him where I am now living as he wants to get out of NY.
So as you can see things has progressed and to all my friends here and who has posted to me THANK YOU! Sometimes I have wanted to just jump right back in but you guys have helped me alot keep doing the DBing...
I know I am not on frequently as I work down south now and dont really have alot of access to the internet...but I did want to let you know of the progress! As for the BF, things have been steadily going down hill and not because of the XH but because of his drinking...and his lack of relationship with me. I am thinking he has been my crutch..so for that I will be re-evaluating alot...But anyway just wanted to say thanks and keep DBing!!!