Im not sure DB will work for my H, or for me to get over H. The only resort I have left is to sign the papers, move on and forget him, if at all possible. I cant tippy toe around him and hope he is going through an emotional turmoil and will come around. Honestly, i may be wrong for saying this, but is it more hurtful and detremental to your relationship when H does this when the W is pregnant? How does that work? What does that have to save about selfishness?
I met someone who said she went through the same, where she married a guy and he got freaked out and left weeks after the baby was born and left. They got divorced. She said she he also did the same thing to his first wife... first thing that popped into my head was, WHY would you marry a guy who is capable of doing this to his first wife in the first place???
and then it hit me... am I not doing the same? or at least trying to? Trying to make a R work between me and H when I know he is fully capable of doing this to me over and over?
Maybe I am just better off w/o H. I've read so many success stories and peicing threads and great R advice, just dont feel like they fit in with my sitch.
I dont know Al, how were you able to forgive and take back you H? How did you ever trust him?
I dont think my H deserves that at all... not that it is an option?
I just feel like I am more alone in this battle than I ever was.
i dont know... what is the success rate of M that are saved through DB? Is it listed somewhere? or mentioned? Just curious...
But for me... this is a chapter that is over. Done. Finito.
