Don't settle for nothing. Is your spouse the one that can be the everything you need?
Be careful tjack; this sounds more like co-dependency than settling. No S is perfect, so in some sense, we all "settle". I am not suggesting to put up with infedelity or abuse, but I just wanted to point out that one can go overboard in "not settling".
By the way, I really doubt this is the case with you, A&K, or 95% of this board. Many of us are dealing with very real issues.
