She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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She came over to the house yesterday morning. We sat and drank coffee and talked. Cleared up the anger issues from counseling. She took my D14 shopping and I went to the trailer.

When I got back she came outside and we talked for a bit. I asked her at one point if there something I hadn't thought of that would bring her back home. Her answer was time and consistency. I told her I had no problem with the consistence part, but I wasn't sure how I would do on the time.

It was a constructive talk, but at one point she surprised me. She said there were times when she felt like a piece of meat to me because i would grope her. Now I know I have come out and said what I wanted to do to her, our touch her butt. However, I never groped her.

As time goes on, little pieces of what's going through her head are coming out. We need to deal with them she says, but she knows we can't change them.

We also talked about our view on finances and saving money. She was relieved to hear that we were both on the same page. That has allot to do with how she's feeling, so this was a positive in resolving the financial issues with her she said.

We then took D14 out to dinner and a movie for her birthday. It was awkward because we took two vehicles and went our separate ways after the movie but we all had fun together.

She asked if she could stay at the house next weekend since it's mothers day. She wants to take D4 to the zoo while I take D14 out on the boat. I really don't like leaving the house so I don't know what I'm going to do.