Don't settle for nothing. All of us are here because our marriage was not fulfilling emotionally, physically or spiritually. (at least for one side)We ALL deserve better than that! Is your spouse the one that can be the everything you need? Can you be that person for them? I guess you may never know. Take the time and figure out what the opposite sex needs. Learn how to be able to sustain a long-term relationship and also figure out what you need to be happy. It isn't your spouse I'll tell you that.