Your h is a master manipulator. He's very good at guilting you and wanting you to panic. I have to say the man is good at throwing out comments. Don't put much stock in his comment.
If I were you, I'd decorate your room the way you want it. Now, if you need him to help w/the movement of furniture, etc., fine....but if you can manage on your own...do it.
Enjoy your Sunday and again, don't put too much thought into trying to figure out his comment...
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
