Husband being hateful and cruel. Is this a stage?

[AJM]

I would only add to that you cannot "make" him do anything. You can only make yourself do things. But I do agree you should not let him into your head. The logic is this: It's important for your sanity that you not let the crazies into your head. If you are not sane, you cannot do anything for either of you. He is not going to be sane for a long time if ever. It is therefore up to you.

Life isn't fair. Would be nice if it wasn't so actively unfair sometimes right? But we're stronger than that. We'll be fine. We will be better than fine. We will be better for the experience even though we cannot understand why we are going through this. We will be stronger. Smarter. Happier. We just don't know why and that's how it should be.

Be well.