The Damned "What Ifs"

[Goingdownhill]

And Sandy, I bounced around because I tried Newcomers, no responses, I tried MLC and Sox was great there but it wasn't until I realized my husband was in a full on affair that I need to be in Infidelity. You see, the advice I got was don't just label it MLC right away, that is just an excuse. That came from my IC. Then when I realized it was a full affair and probably MLC I had to make a choice of where to go. I figured Infidelity since that was the cream of the crop. But I'm sure there is some MLC going on too contrary to what my IC says. She also thinks he may have Narcissistic tendencies. But I don't see a board for that.

do you have some suggestions to help point me in the right direction or do you prefer to just say "don't bother, you are looking for sympathy". We can't help you here. I'd think empathy is more like what we all need at this point in our lives. A little at least.