anyhows, ex picked son up for match some ten minutes late and off they went, son was in a bit of a mess when he returned he had taken a bad tackle and with the ground being hard it as taken most of his face off, like the top of his lip under his nose is no longer there, all cuts and bruises and grazes all over his face, he looked like he had gone through the windscreen of a car. he is doing nicely now and it is all healing well. dad called me after dropping son off to let me know what had happened, apparantly son was also concussed for a while when it happened and was out cold, so to warn me to keep my eye on him and also told me which creams etc I should put on, maybe he thought I didnt know seen as though I did my first aid course. so that was wednesday, ex called on thursday to see how son was and then low and behold nothing at all since then, it is a good job son is healing and getting better because his a**hole of a father isnt bothered or interested. ex had said that son was wanting to go driving again today, but there as been no arrangements made, it is like ex has shot back in the tunnel, run because son got hurt and he did say on the phone how it looked like a hospital visit when he was out cold. can only think that this must of frightened ex because it as always been me that handled these situations as ex doesnt like blood and pain. I dunno what to say or think anymore, dont understand the man anymore and dont think i ever will. only one more thing to add is the fact that if it had been wifey at sons match and not the ex and son had this accident then she wouldnt of been able to sign for any treatment that son needed, maybe that was gods way of telling ex to stop pushing her into being there where she isnt wanted and definately isnt needed. any hows thanks for reading and thanks for the rant, off to have a day on the beer, chin up people way to go x