HI CL,
"Maybe if I act like a H (another DB technique), in spite of my feelings, she may start to act more like a W. There are no other options at this time.

It's odd. We actually have a had a great week together. She is so happy when we're out in the world being social with interesting people."

I like this. Hope your head gets better soon from all the 2x4's you have taken-lol. Just remember faint hard never won fair lady, and no one said it was going to be easy but you said it was easier to avoid etc, and now I think you are "getting it".
I am smiling. Take care.