Need a Plan for My Marriage

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Today, my wife and I argued a bit. After she put the money in her other account, I took the remaining $700 out with part of that for rent. I told I will not put the remaining part for rent back until she put a certain amount for the rent from her pay. I also took what was left and spent it on groceries. It did not make her happy, but it is another pay day with her not leaving me with anything. I have some money from my job coming next pay day, so I will not be at her mercy as much for a little while.

I took and put some Vegas tickets in a safe place and some other items too. She does not know about them yet, but she will not be happy when she finds out. I had not made these decisions until she pushed me into this situation. I guess I had to make some boundaries for her the hard way. She told my daughter a real man has a job and money. She is probably right, but a real man that she sees in the OM does not cheat on his family. A W does not cheat on her H and family either. Some may disagree with me, but I have been a real man in other ways that the OM could only hope to be. Even the OMW says he is definitely not a real man, no matter what job he has or how much money he makes. He does not give his W but some of the money and she pays most of the bills except for a low mortgage and keeps the rest. He also spends very little time with his kids. If this is a real man, I am happy I am not a real man.

W does not even know what I have planned next. I do not intend to let her know either, so I will not put it here until after the fact in case she does track the computer in some way.

The other woman wants the e-mails I found when W left her e-mail open in Japan which my wife knows I have, but I do not want legal problems by forwarding them the OMW. I have to check with my attorney first next Monday. She wants them to confront her H with. I want her to confront the H, but I do not want to do this with causing myself problems. I have to be careful too. She is ready to confront him, but the OMW needs something, so the OM cannot deny it. I did forward her the cell phone records which are under my name for both phones. It is my contract, so I did not think it would be a problem to forward her those. This is getting nasty. I do have many tricks in my bag that are left for the right time.

The OM will not know what hit him. His W will now fight for every last penny that she can get; whereas, before she just would have given him what he wants to end the marriage if he filed for divorce. He will not be a happy person, nor will my W. Too bad for them!!!