Need a Plan for My Marriage

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Sandie2,

This has been such a hard guestion for me to answer. I don't know why. I have always liked superman because he pretty much has all the powers, and he loves humanity. I think I relate to him because his biggest weakness is not really kypronite, but his love for Lois Lane and humanity. It makes his life a lot harder than if he did not love so much. I feel that my love for my W and my family is my biggest vulnerability, not that I am Superman. I am strong about most anything except when it comes to putting my family before everything else. I guess I am weak in that way.

I have watched parts of "Gone with the Wind," and your right he is a mans man. I wish I was more like him, but I know I will never be. You are right that is not every man's personality.

I like who I am about how I care about others, but my putting her and my family first did not really put them first because I would have a job at this moment instead of worrying about her job being the priority, and maybe my marriage would be better. I know that, and I have to live with that everyday. That is hard for me to admit. I cannot change the past but I can do better now and in the future.

I hope this answers your question the best I could.