MF, just catching up, have been going non-stop since yesterday.

Photographer was great. Turns out her H had and EA, maybe PA, too. Small world! That part's not so good but we had fun during the shoot. Will post pics when I get them in about a week.

Sorry your H is being a total ass. You're right, it seems to be the theme. It would have been so much easier for them to say, "Look, I'm unhappy and things have to change or I'm out." But wait, that would require them to (wo)man up and that also seems to be the common thread, they're all cowards.

Not to worry. You are in charge of the sitch and you know what you want and how to get it. It's going to get tough but we all know you can handle it. And we're here to help you any way we can.

Last edited by pearlharbr; 05/02/10 05:23 AM.
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