Thank you my friends, I sure could use some hugs. I really think that the OW-creature needs a psychiatrist....how can my H be so stupid and keep letting her do this to him and to us. I wonder which part of his body is he thinking with.

There is one hope...maybe he is not telling me because HE IS NOT SURE if he wants to trust her again. Slim hope...but I need one.

Or he is not telling me because he wants me to go to his dad's B-Day Dinner tomorrow and have me pretend that we are the happy little family that we always were. (I'd mentioned that he never told his dad that he left us for OW).

How am I going to pull that one off tomorrow?

I have decided...I'm not going to confront him....I'm going to pretend that everything is fine and that I'm under the impression that he wants to reconcile. I'm not going to make this easy for him. He will have to come and tell me that he has changed his mind ....again.

Rollback to 3 weeks ago and continue from there....

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO