Messed up

[jt2007]

Seeking, I read your post again.

I think maybe (X)H didnt enjoy treating me that way either. Maybe it was making him unhappy to treat me that way, so he acted out and just made things worse. This maybe why he told says he cant live with me.
He said when I do nice things it makes him po, I do nothing, makes him po..
I think he just has his own problems now.

Exactly why I think he fits the MLC

Somewhere in the middle of our marriage it was really good.
We both were communicating and doing well together..he wasnt the imature guy I married and wasnt a jerk.
Now he is just a jerk/alien.


But he still did act out, and he still went back to where he came from with his old highschool friends and meeting OW there, emotional affair-real affair/what ever dont care which anymore.
Instead of trying to work us out.

From his alcohlic stepmonster..we never allowed drinking in the house or around the kids. It was always just an occasional one with family on special occasions out.

Now..after Im not in the house...he wanted to bring it into the house, for his relaxation at night because he cant sleep...I told him he should look for alternatives than alcohol...to remember what his life was like with someone that depended on it.

BY the way other women drinks, and he thinks its having fun.
..when does this end...the having fun thing???
AND WTH...with the other woman acting like his stepmonster and him liking it???


He did admit to being "young and stupid" at some of the things I mentioned that he did when we were first married that were mistakes that didnt help our relationship.

So..good at least I got to hear that.

Ok so what about him now "old and stupid?"....can see it but waiting to hear it.

apologize for sounding a little crasp, having a WTH moments tonight.