DNO, I don't want to be a hardliner, however I do recognize the need for greater assertiveness, expressiveness, and giving. There must be a way to incorporate what you're describing that fits into my way of looking at things.
I think I need to expand my definition of love to include insisting that any people of poor character not be allowed to threaten my M. I've been a failure at love. I've been civil, and have not done any intentional harm to the M, (more like neglect), but have not truly loved her. This is where I need to grow.
It's understandable when there is a WAS, that GAL is an option many choose to improve and reclaim themselves. However, when Piecing occurs it's not fair to expect my W to accept mostly the status quo.
Don't underestimate the impact the dance lessons have had. My W sees me in a different way, because of the performance team. I think without them, there would be too much distance, rather than the potential I have to work with. I think the time is ripening for significant change. I can feel it.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
