Should this be expected even though their are positives. I suppose they should as this is MLC. H is still living with OW but appears to be working harder and harder therefore spending longer hours at the office!
Probably doesn't mean much, but it looks like he's trying to decide for himself what he wants to do...and is struggling with the choice between OW and you.
His burying himself in his work, and his lack of communication entirely, shuts out everything while he attempts to decide for himself.
While OW is in the picture, he has NOT come out of Replay..he must ditch her in order to cross over into OW Withdrawal.
You know you cannot help him; only watch and see what happens.
Sounds like he's got quite a battle on his hands.
I hope his decision is a sound one...coming back to you.
You're coming across as very strong in your postings, LA.
Take care.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
