I don't know the answer to your "what if?" questions.
Most married women don't hang out solely with single friends in my opinion. And if most of the married friends are in affairs, you have to be careful AS A COUPLE about the people in your circle of friends.
My W and I have been married 10+, and neither of the above would apply to either of us. Neither of us have mostly single friends, and most of our M friends are 1) not having an A, and 2) still in their first marriage.
I guess my whole point is you either trust your W's moral compass OR you don't.
