Total Clustercuss

[ClingingToHope]

We spent D7's birthday last summer together -- back when I still held out hope for the M.

For D11's birthday, the actual birthday was STBXW's night and I'm not going to do that "can we spend it together" crap.

So we made a big production out of it the weekend before, which was my weekend. I took her to Medieval Times with her best friend.

I saw her after school on her birthday and gave her a card.

The next weekend was STBXW's and she had a slumber party for her.

I'm guessing STBXW won't have a house by D11's next birthday so I'm not sure what will happen about the slumber party.

My plan is to make my times with them special and let STBXW ask to be a part.

I took the week off this summer for D7's next birthday, but STBXW was thinking ahead. She took the day off and wants it in the agreement that we both see them on their birthdays.

Well, D7 wants to go to Medieval Times as well and I'll invite STBXW along.