I'm so feeling for you right now. I figured I was allowed to comment--I just meant in such a negative manner. lol I have some much more abrasive terms to hurl in his direction if you'd like. It might make you feel better just to scream at him a bit. Just as long as he doesn't hear you.
You are doing okay--even if you don't feel like it, you are. Just keep faking it, right? Keeping acting strong & pretty soon you'll feel it. I mean if he's just being an asshat, then don't let him know that you actually care. On the other hand if he is *intentionally* trying to hurt you--then don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you crumble.
I want a T-shirt that has my (now) favorite saying on it...
This Princess Saves Herself
If he wants to act like the big tough guy who totally cuts his wife and children off with no warning whatsoever, then fine. He needs to be able to handle the pissed off warrior princess who was disguised as his sweet & loving wife. How did he expect you to react? What did he think you were going to do?
Of course you don't even have to show up to the battle to win the war. The best revenge is sometimes just living the best life you can after him. Live your life as though his walking away will have had no affect on you. A life that is just as good without him as it ever was with him. A life that no longer has room for him.
Go ahead, Luv...get all Xena on him.
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
