Another aspect that troubles me is that she is talking alit with her brother (who lives out of state and where she wants to move). He and I have always got along great but he is her little brother and very protective of his sister (I am the same way with my older sister).
I know there are several posts on the forums about well intentioned friends, I assume that goes for family memebers as well.
I can't blame him for wanting to protect his family, especially since I have done things and more importantly NOT done things that have hurt his little sister.
Should I reach out to him? Should I tell him I am trying to work on myself? If I don't does that fuel the fire that maybe I don't care about the R anymore?
