Hey Luv, I hear you ... the Jekyll/Hyde thing that comes out is mind-blowing. My H (whom I suspect is seeing an OW) has told me in one breath, "I always take care of you and our son," and in the next, "What do you mean, support you? You're a grown woman, you can work."

I know how you feel, too: I usually enjoy some alone time (not easy with a needy, moody H and a rambunctious 7-yo boy at home), but this kind of alone sucks. I hope you can take comfort that, thanks to all the supportive people here, you're not really alone. Goodness knows this forum has been a real lifeline for me.

One day at a time, one day at a time.


H 42
Me 47
DS 7
T 18
M 16
Bomb: 4/20/10
H leaves to live at Mom's: 4/30/20

My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1990503#Post1990503