That is still hard for me to ignore some of his texts. However, the more I ignored them the less he sends me. In fact the most he sends me now is just about kids or money and those I respond to. I was so worried that it came accross rude too. However, he needs to start missing you, including chatty texts. If you respond, then in a way he still has you on the back burner. Or starts to think, wow we'll be good friends at least.
I hope that helps, hugs to you (-;
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10