Let's just say this... Geronimo, you are the king and the king makes decisions for himself, by himself. Those nightmares she is having need to keep happening and I think you made a mistake by telling her that you would never sleep with X,Y, or Z. You do not need to ease her fears about that!

What would she have to say or do for you to get you to rebuild with her? She is still looking for reassurance that you will stay around for her. Until she is willing to do what YOU WANT to make it work there is no hope for a good future between you two.


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final