Originally Posted By: FormelyknownasF
Originally Posted By: robx
Do not contact her.


So I just prolong this situation indefinitely? Just be patient, hoping she'll
come to her senses before she finds yet another men. I just keep
smiling and doing my own thing... She'll be ready when she's ready.

Seriously, what's the alternative to that, then?


you stated the "alternative" not really the "alternative but the directive.

"I just keep smiling and doing my own thing"

c'est la vie

personally, with what you have written about her, if i was living it, i wouldnt contact her until you can look her in the face and say, "We're through" and spin on your heels and walk away. (and get yourself a pair of horsebit loafers) so the last thing she remembers is the jingling sound of being dumped. It will resonate in her mind if she ever comes to her senses.