Unfortunately I don't think he will cooperate.... He is only thinking of himself right now.... I'm pretty sure I'm spending money on a SA that won't be signed...

I'm exploring either a private loan for Hs equity (7k minus whatever I can to bring it down.... Or getting a valuation on the house (on the low side to minimize the equity)...

The problem is the payment frequency... As it stands once I stop paying (if I have to) then I have 6 weeks to find a house and move... and I need more than that to come up with a downpayment on the house I buy.... Which is why I was trying to get him to change it to monthly... Which would give me 4 months...

If I rent I will probably not be able to afford to get enough $$ together to buy on my own again...

I finished my part time job last night.. The money will be missed...


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