LSG, out of curiosity, who would you pick as your favorite male hero in a movie? What character would you most like to be, if you had the ability to be like him?
Have you ever watched that old movie, "Gone With the Wind"? If not, please watch it. The main character, Scarlette O'Hara is a WAW! Rhett Butler is what a "real man" should be......IMHO (lol),but of course that is not every male's personality type.
Anyway, just thought it would be interesting to know who you saw yourself being or wanting to be like in a story.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!