My husband is supposed to be out of the relationship with the OW for a month now, as I mentioned there is very little contact between us and I really am unsure that it is in fact finished. He is living in a different continent to her now but I think they may be involved in an EA. (he has gone back to her twice now after getting on a plane saying it was finished)I suppose the fact that he is here now and not with her is something, although ther has been talk of her moving here. I pray that is not the case
I understand how you feel with the changes in beahaviour, one day your his best buddy and you have a lovely time together the next day he is a stranger. It's like they loose the memory of the previous day and only remember their original reasons for leaving, and once again for whatever reason you are the enemy. It is very hard to deal with, at least you have contact which is a good thing whether its friendly or not. Being ignored is much harder. Trust me I've had the hot / cold contact and it's better than none.
