Journaling: I know, I am repeating myself!

The WAH "trifector":

1. H in PA walks out on M overnight, no debate
2. Happens during planned pregnancy (fert treatment and all)
3. Says he is going back overseas to live & I'll be raising the child (alternatively, if i don't want to raise it, he takes the child overseas and raises it himself. yep he said that!!!).

Is offering:
1. financial support for child
2. names for child
3. to meet the baby and be around for first days/week, but thereafter a big ?

What have I got to work with here?