It kind of starts with a job, but it's more than just the job.
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Let me echo Glimmer here. The job is a part of it. It's not the whole enchilada. I know that my wife resents the censored out of my new job as a teacher. I'm no longer "the boss". I don't set meetings and agendas, I attend them. She didn't do well in school and thinks that teachers are a waste of oxygen. (I make much more money than previously though) She also lost her "glory job" a year ago and is applying for jobs at half the pay rate. We would be sunk without the pay from my new job. So yeah, it's about her job and mine, but it's also about waay more.