still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[newmama]

thanks for the encouragement- this visitation change has been eating away at me since I told him about it.

yes-we will tweak as needed. part of me wants WH to be the first one to bring it up so that he has to admit it is hard on S. But then I don't want him to say it to try to make me feel bad for enforcing this change- I was the one to offer to make S' bedtime later so that he could see him longer.

don't worry-I would not sit back and do or say nothing if it becomes blatantly clear this is too hard on S. but I do know it will need to go on for 1-2 weeks before it would be clear (allow for adjustment).