Just to make sure this line of thinking doesn't go too far, what my thoughts are from my situation is that it's not so much "just the job".
Again, this is from my situation, so yours could be different. With my W, it was the bigger picture, but the job was a piece of that, and symptomatic of other things....provision, protection, trust, responsibility, "taken care of"....consider all these things from the point of view of the WAW and you'll see the angle that I'm coming from regarding the financial stuff. It kind of starts with a job, but it's more than just the job.
