I am sorry for being defensive, FM. I feel a lot of guilt about changing the visitation arrangement.
(((FM))) I apologize for snapping at you.
No apology necessary NM. Sorry for hitting a nerve there. I hear you on the mother guilt. It's been torture for me. But I think you are doing the right thing to change things up. Taking care of you IS taking care of S. And you can experiment and tweak things until it works as well as possible under the circumstances.
(((NM)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
