Pass - YES! Exactly! What's up with that? I think I saw that on one of your posts before, I remember thinking "how strange that someone else's H was like that!!!" WHY?

Mila, my H gets very frustrated with my teenager too. I don't mean while he was gone, I mean since he's wanted to reconcile. Not just now, but a few months ago when he first suggested reconciling. He actually fights (verbally) with teenager when he doesn't join into family events like WH would like him to. Like he's trying in his mind, to treat the teenager like a younger child. I don't know how to explain it, but teenager was hurting over his Dad leaving in the first place, and Dad once he thought about coming back felt his kids should immediately embrace and support every decision he wanted (mostly about family events).