still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[flowmom]

In our case, visitation is based on the children's routines, not parental convenience.

I don't understand what you are saying? Parental convenience? What?

(((NM))) I think that came out wrong . I didn't express myself well.

All I meant to say was that IME that would be a very tricky time of day to do a switch between parents. But you know your S best and I'm sure you'll work out something that's right for all of you. It sounds like the communication about coparenting is good and that's very important.