Need a Plan for My Marriage

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5. What have you been doing to deal with the stress you must be feeling so you don't show it in body language, words, or actions?

I have been detaching and spending time with the kids. The temporary position has helped to be away from the problem. I talk to my parents, post here, pray, and detach to keep my sanity. I just keep focused on myself and my kids. I do not focus on the A anymore. I think about it, but I do not let it consume me as did when I found out. It has been a long hard road with no end in sight. I tell myself everyday "I will be okay." I mean it to. In my mind, there really is nothing more she can do to hurt except for the kids