Man, I don't know how you pulled off waiting this long for everything.
Not waiting, Time...Detatching and working on MYSELF. Detatchment is an art well worth cultivating...in using the time to work on myself, I can definitely say that I have become a much better person. And I move forward...not move on....just forward.
Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
When my W was talking about leaving, and I figured there was nothing I could do about it, I pretty much resolved to go on with my life.
Exactly.
That's all you can do. It has taken me a good deal of reflection (and education) on what SHE is going through for me to be able to have developed the compassion for her that has helped me go through all of this. She is trying to find her way. Maybe she finds her way back to me...maybe she doesn't. All I can do is continue to move forward.
Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
In fact, she took the day off to pack for the movers, and at one point she came to me and asked what I was thinking, so I told here what I was thinking: "It's going to be really weird not talking you anymore except when we make the divorce arrangements and sign the papers".
She balked at that and started crying. She didn't leave much to my suprise.
Sounds like the dose of reality you gave her made her wake up a little at the very least. Stay in touch.
PATIENCE AND FORTITUDE CONQUER ALL THINGS. -Ralph Waldo Emerson
DBing and MLC take their toll....Please provide exact CHANGE. -Jimbo
